Editor’s Advice: Words of Wisdom From Rapper 50 Cent

Sometimes light bulb moments come from the most unlikely places. Recently I sat down on a Sunday night to watch an episode of “Oprah’s Next Chapter” on the OWN Network, where Oprah Winfrey interviewed rapper 50 cent. The goal was to reveal the real man named Curtis James Jackson — the one behind the bad boy persona.

I decided to tune in because I heard he would be revealing his spiritual side, and I know he is working to feed children in Africa through the sales of his energy drink “Street King.” However, I can honestly say I didn’t expect to come away with a golden nugget of advice from the rapper … but that is exactly what happened!

At one point, Oprah said to him: “I’m stunned by your whole persona. You seem like a gentle soul.” She asked about when he was shot nine times in front of his grandmother’s home, and specifically asked “Are you afraid to die?”

50 Cent said “no” because he knows he is not in control, and that when there doesn’t seem to be an answer for something, he turns to a “higher power.” And then came the nugget…

“Either pray or worry, don’t do both,” he told Oprah.

This simple statement gets right to the heart of it. If we have faith in something greater than ourselves, and we choose to pray to a higher power, why do we then continue to worry about the situation?  We simply can’t have faith and worry at the same time.

This is also true with the law of attraction. We are told to ask and believe, but before the receive comes the letting go. However many of us ask, believe … and then worry!

I really wanted to share this with our readers who may have missed the interview, as the statement he made really stayed with me. The next time I say a prayer, or ask the universe, God, spirit or a higher power for guidance or help, I will remember the prayer means I no longer have to worry about a solution. I just need to know it’s on its way, and remember to say “thank you” when it arrives. I hope you will do the same.

Thank you Curtis Jackson, a.k.a. 50 Cent. Maybe you can write a rap around that golden nugget!

 

 

Oprah Talks Transformation and Meditation with Dr. Oz

By now you may have heard that Oprah Winfrey is coming back to television. Her new show “Oprah’s Next Chapter” is premiering New Year’s Day on the OWN Network. Oprah recently sat down with Dr. Oz to talk about how she is working through the new changes in her life, and what others can learn from it.

So what does Oprah miss most about doing her show? “I miss the audience, I miss the people…what I miss the most is talking to people,” Oprah said, as reported by EmaxHealth.

Her new show takes her out of the studio and on the road, which will allow her to connect with people once again. “The most important thing for me was to be able to make the transformation to something really different, so I wanted to get out of ‘the chair,’” she said. “I think that for 25 years I’ve felt like, ‘I’m in the chair, I’m in the chair.’ And so, I’ve been out of the chair and out into the world just talking to people who I thought were interesting.”

Some of these include talking to George Lucas and Cuba Gooding Jr. about a movie that tells the story of the Tuskegee Airmen; eating a meal with members of a Jewish Hasidic family who had never heard of Oprah before; fishing with Paula Deen at her home in Savannah, Georgia; discussing drug use with Steven Tyler in his home; and, fire-walking over hot coals with Tony Robbins. She also plans to visit India with Deepak Chopra and Haiti with Sean Penn.

“I believe that there are multiple ways of reaching people…and I believe that my calling—and everybody in here has a calling—has been since I was three years old and speaking in a church in Mississippi, was to be a sweet inspiration where I could. And to literally allow people to see for themselves how your life can be better—and I can do that through telling stories,” Oprah said on the Dr. Oz Show. “The purpose of the network is to create a space where people can come and get little pieces of light, little pieces of inspiration that will lift them up. I always wanted to have a platform where people could come in and see the best of themselves.”

“How do you know when you are ready for transformation?” Dr. Oz asked Oprah. She explained that we all go through patterns of change and growth and we reach a point where we have gone as far as we can emotionally and spiritually, and we need to move on toward another level to begin growing again. This is the point she reached with “The Oprah Winfrey Show.”

Dr. Oz also asked Oprah how she manages to stay true to herself and what she believes in when she has so many people with differing expectations of her.

“It’s about knowing steadfastly who you are and knowing what your vision is for your life and holding onto that… I have a vision for the future and I am steadfast in pursuing that until at some point I recognize that I should be pursuing something else,” she said. “You are not defined by what other people say about you. You are not defined even by what you do. But you are defined at this moment, by the hope and the light that you bring to this moment.”

Oprah also shared that she and her staff have begun meditating daily after visiting a town in Iowa where one third of the entire town is focused on transcendental meditation. “You cannot imagine what’s happened in my company,” as a result of meditation, Oprah explained. “People who used to have migraines—don’t. People are sleeping better. People have better relationships. The one thing I want to continue to do is to center myself every day and make that a practice for myself because I am 1000 percent better when I do that—when I take myself back to something bigger than myself.”

VIDEO: Inside Oprah’s New Show Starting Jan. 1

Oprah Winfrey is coming back! But this time she is leaving the studio behind and hitting the road!

Starting New Year’s Day, her primetime series “Oprah’s Next Chapter” will premiere on the OWN Network at 9 p.m. ET/PT, and feature a visit with Aerosmith’s Steven Tyler at his New Hampshire home for an interview on a number of topics, from his years of drug addiction, his complicated relationships with ex-wives, and “American Idol,” according to a report by Aceshowbiz.com.

“After 25 years I got myself out of the studio chairs. I moved into the next chapter, and I am having more fun than ever – moving around the country and the world talking to people I’m really interested in getting to know, and I think viewers will be, too,” Winfrey said. “It is so energizing to be out and about in the world exploring new people, new places and new ideas.”

Future episodes will see Oprah traveling to Haiti with actor, Sean Penn; touring Skywalker Ranch with George Lucas; walking on fire with Tony Robbins; having a slumber party with chef Paula Deen at her Georgia estate, and learning more about Transcendental Meditation in a small Iowa town, AOL TV reported.

“I sat at the dinner table with a Hasidic Jewish family and tried to explain to the children who have never seen a television what TV is … can you imagine?” Winfrey said in the AOL report. “I fire-walked with Tony Robbins — never pictured myself doing that! I celebrated the power of God and community with Joel Osteen, and I’m planning a trip with Deepak Chopra to India where I’ve never been.”

See a sneak peek video of the new show below!